Success: Perfection or Productivity?

Have you ever wondered how someone with more responsibilities or demands is able to achieve more of their goals than you do? No, they are not perfect, alien, or some breed of human meets robot. Simply, they are probably just more highly productive and efficient than you.  Now, if only we could be as perfect …

Race and Racial Identity: Is There Room For Everyone? (Part I)

"This town ain't big enough for the both of us." - The Western Code Nicki Minaj is currently allegedly feuding with Taylor Swift over the nominations for Best Music Video of the Year. According to Minaj, who was not nominated, "If your video celebrates women with slim bodies, you will be nominated for Video of …

The Conundrum: Being Strong

After breaking my silence about a personal life event, I know there are a lot of people that suddenly have a lot of questions. My original post was intended to shed more light on an issue in our society than a whirlwind of questions about me. However, I accept the questions and curiosity as a …

Protect Your Optimism

Man, oh man! How much bad, poor, negative news can we handle? Does anyone else feel like every time they turn around there is more bad news being reported? Yes, Facebook is usually filled with positive messages and laughs; Instagram with joyous photos and smiles; but, the news, forget about it-- sad news upon weird …

Accepting the Cards I Am Dealt.

Life Question: Why are we dealt different cards in life? And what should we do if we don't like the cards we are dealt? "Why them and not me?" Let's be honest folks. Throughout your life, how many times have you had some variation of this question? Personally, I have had this thought invade my …

10 Lessons I Have Learned in the Past Hectic Month

1. Praying for strength might mean I have to experience life puzzles that require me to exercise/expose my weakness in order to gain and maintain "strength." 2. Be less afraid of standing my ground and fighting (figuratively). 3. Accept that opposition is inevitable and necessary; and then learn how to prepare to win. 4. Being healthy is more important than being "hot" or happy. …

Proving Yourself to Other People

LifeFact: If in the course of talking about why you are pursuing something or making a particular decision you find yourself saying "I am going to prove to ____, that I ____," it is a huge indication that you are not free, your intentions are misguided, and you are too concerned about what other people …

Dealing with Crappy and Sh*tty Stuff

I was talking to my cousin the other day about some shitty things that have been happening in my life lately. Well, it's more like crappy things happening to someone else that in turn affected me. I guess this area of my life has just been somewhat of an adventurous ride recently. Naturally at this …