Sometimes people who do not like you will recognize the potential you have more than those closer to you. This is when listening to the enemy is a good thing.
Most people consciously or subconsciously do not like you for a reason. Strangely, behind that reason might lie the greatness they recognize and envy in you that they do not see in themselves. You highlight their insecurities and doubts which results in a disdain for what they wish they could be or have.
Don’t be weak when your “haters” see you as great.